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One Decision Can Change Everything

All day long we make decisions. Some are small, like what to eat for breakfast. 

 Some are medium-impact, like which car to buy or whether to speak up in a meeting. 

Others are life-changing. Like whether to leave a job, disrupt a marriage, or move to a new city.

How do you approach these big, life-impacting decisions?

This week in my group program for women, Be All You Are, we discussed the art of decision-making. 

We talked about how often, when we feel confused or unsettled, it is because we are putting off making a decision. Staying in a state of indecision for too long can eventually cause feelings of overwhelm, helplessness, and even lowered self-esteem and self-confidence.

Simply making a decision could change everything.

Easier said than done right?

So this week in our session I shared 6 questions to ask yourself when you're making a big decision. 

I wanted to share those questions with you First name:

  1. Am I making this decision from a place of hope or fear?

  2. Am I making this decision from a place of love or anger?

  3. Am I making this decision from a place of trust or doubt?

  4. Does this decision bring me closer to or farther away from my goals?

  5. Is this decision for the highest good for all?

  6. Am I making this decision from the place of my future or my past?

Whether you have a big decision you're sitting on right now or are just deciding whether to start second-hand clothes shopping (anyone else curious to try their hand at this?), these 6 questions will help guide you towards a decision you can feel good about.

The “right” decision doesn't exist, but we can intend to make a decision right, and these 6 questions will support you in getting there.

Are you holding off on making a big decision right now? Try these questions and let me know what comes up for you.

 

With love,

Kena ❤️
Kena Paranjape, Founder, All You Are